Being happy is a choice.

[gizmo]

lol...bullshit...lol!

++I've learned never to grab a bull by its horns, because all you'll get is a struggle with a ton of pissed off beef. Grab him by his balls and you'll have his undivided attention.

++Something very important I've learned is that if you truly never give up or let go of what you want, you will eventually get it. I've learned that having faith in what you do is extremely important. Hard work pays off. Even when things seem hopeless for you, don't give up, just keep going. Never let go of the things you're after, chase after them until you get it and then it will be so worth it

++So far I have learned to never underestimate anyone.

++Treat others as you wish to be treated

[Universon]

Being happy is a choice.

Life is based on the stories that we write. You write sad stories, you are sad. You write depressing stories, you are depressed. You write happy stories, you are happy. There are people that look at death as tragedy. There are others (and religions) that look at it as a going home and they throw a party. I used that example because most people look at that as painful. I just want you to see that it doesn't matter the situation, you have the power to decide how you feel based on the story that you write.

Why is this important to understand? If you ever look for someone to make you happy, you are in trouble. It would also be unfair to them. Any time that you are feeling bad, that person would think it is his responsibility to figure out how to make you happy. That is a lot of work and guessing. Not only that, what makes you happy may be something that will make him unhappy. Then it is unfair to his happiness.

Most important is if you start to depend on others for you happiness, you feel like you are out of control. The more this occurs, the easier it will be for you to fall in depression. All of this would occur because you didn't know that you were responsible for your feelings. Now that you are aware, choose to be happy (no matter what occurs).

I hope you grasp what I said because if you didn't will let you down eventually and your life will be back out of control. Why? Because we all have a hard enough time trying to figure out our own happiness. We don't need the pressure of figuring it out for someone else. He may not do it intentionally but it will happen. Why because he is a human being and no one is perfect. You attract everything in your life (good or bad). Whether you understand it or not. Whether you believe it or not.
You attract what you focus on, so attract well.

By the way, if you want to attract the right guy here is what you do. I learned this from Michael Losier (the how to guy for the law of attraction): take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. On the left side of the line, put the things you don't want in a relationship. Knowing what you don't want is very important because it will help you to complete the right side of the paper - the 'want side'. Once you have completed both sides of the paper, fold the paper in half and only focus on the right side (the things you want in a relationship). Watch what happens. You will attract the person that is meant for you.

You will already be happy, Right!!! lol