Quote of the Day

[toughmind99]

There is always more than one right solution to any problem. Some of them have tens of different solutions.


So, now YOU do not say that you have a problem and cannot find a solution.

[luv2chat]

Look forward to win it after you win it.
You are going to win it when you won it.

I agree with this.
And this is also to be respected:

so, to shorten it: expectations lead to failures!

So, to avoid failures one should follow my saying as OP.

Eevery time I had big expectations I failed! So, now I have to learn no to expect anything. Happier life that way. 

[cougar]

Here's what somebody posted on this forum (i believe "toughmind99" in "Expectations" board):

expectations lead to disappointments
disappointments to frustrations
frustrations to unhappiness
unhappiness to negative mind/energy
negative mind/energy to further failures!


so, to shorten it: expectations lead to failures!

So, to avoid failures one should follow my saying as OP.

[cougar]

So, it is an advice how not to start enjoying/contemplating something before you got it. If you do, then you run the two huge risks (in case if it didn't come true):

1. Disappointment.
2. Loss (mental or material) because of wrong planning/expectation.

These two risks are TOO huge for anyone to "afford" them. That's why the saying; because it teaches us how to avoid the losses due to great expectation. So: no great expectation = happy and successful life.

To further process this:

the best advice is to make a back up plan for anything. A Plan "B".
Always.
No exceptions!
By doing this we avoid those two huge risks (see above quotation).
ALWAYS! 

Isn't this the formula of success? I strongly believe it is. 

[cougar]

Look forward to win it after you win it.
You are going to win it when you won it.

Interesting!
So the past comes after the future?? Didn't get it. 

well, look...you should look into it little deeper, hon.
It wants to say that nothing is done till it's done. So, do not start enjoying something till you get it. Not in advance; regardless how much it is apparent to happen.

So, it is an advice how not to start enjoying/contemplating something before you got it. If you do, then you run the two huge risks:

1. Disappointment: in case if it didn't come true.
2. Loss (mental or material) because of wrong planning/expectation.

These two risks are TOO huge for anyone to "afford" them. That's why the saying because it teaches us how to avoid the losses duw to great expectation. So: no great expectation = happy and successful life.

hope this helps.

[luv2chat]

Look forward to win it after you win it.
You are going to win it when you won it.

myself.

Interesting!
So the past comes after the future?? Didn't get it. 

[cougar]

Look forward to win it after you win it.
You are going to win it when you won it.

myself.

[blue0^0eyes]

'I have my hunger back. You have to go down in order to go up again. You can't always be a winner, and I am talking about life in general.'

Jelena Jankovic - JJ

[blue0^0eyes]

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.
Mohandas Gandhi

[lovely_cat_1]

I like this one:
“Tough times never last, but tough people do.”

by Robert H. Schuller