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OUR MOTTO:
Argue opinions - not a
person. |
“Nothing is as frustrating as arguing
with someone who knows what he's talking about.” Sam
Ewing
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You just entered the site where you can
learn almost everything about arguing. Whether you like
to argue or not, you'll find useful lessons, tips and
advices how to successfully get out of an argument. Myth #1: many
people believe that arguing is the same as anger. This can not be any
further from the truth.
Here are 4 definitions from the
Dictionary: "Argue":
| 1. express
disagreement: to express
disagreement with somebody |
| 2. give reasons for
something: to give reasons
for an opinion in order to support it. |
| 3. persuade
somebody: to persuade
somebody to do something by giving
reasons. |
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4. provide evidence for
something: to be evidence or a sign of
something.
And,
| "Anger" is a very normal
natural reaction to situations that may cause disappointment, hurt,
frustration, sadness, confusion, shame or other negative emotions. Yet,
for many people anger is an extremely uncomfortable and confusing
emotion. Uncontrolled anger can make you feel as though you’re at the
mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion.
Now, you be the
judge.

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- It's time to stop talking/arguing to yourself when
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OUR
GOALS:
- To promote
healthy arguing based on the facts, proven theorems and believes,
and to building on strong self confidence. A good healthy
arguing ultimately leads to relief of Stress, Anger and
Frustrations!
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To help people who DO NOT want to
argue to learn how to avoid arguing.
- A HUGE relief:
Whoever enters our rooms frustrated - always leaves happy! Exchanging
your opinions with other people can only help you
to:
a) resolve your problems b) prove
you're right or c) abandon possible delusion and d)
build strong personality.
Need to learn
how to avoid the arguing? Please come here:
Avoid
Argument
Don't care about arguing?
Great. Just come
in, read posts, and
don't start (it). No one is gonna bother you! However, you're welcome
to make your posts, give opinions, ideas, or ask questions. So, be
involved as much as it gets. You are allowed to change your mind at any
time and start arguing. Don't like this? Why? Let's argue
that...:-)
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Enjoy.
- And now SPECIAL of
the forum: you can even argue
moderator!! And never been banned for that. On this forum, only!
- We have opened One-Way door
special rooms
for those who do not need feedback for their posts. Just get in
there, discharge yourself and slam the door!!
"The
Power matters more than Justice?"
Can you argue this one? Agree or
disagree? Please comment here: Arguing
of the Week. Thank you. |
Basic lessons
of Arguing
- We do not have to agree with our
opponent opinions.
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- But we have to respect the opinions of
other people.
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- Do not confuse opinion(s) with
person(s)! NEVER!
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- If somebody disagree with you, do not
take it personally. It is only a matter of opinions not the
persons.
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- Do NOT argue with your emotions on.
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- Argue opinion not the person.
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- Do not swear or use of abusing words.
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- Be polite and have a facial expression
to follow that. More>>>
- Avoid using "irony" or "sarcasm"
during your arguing. More>>>
Advanced Lessons
We need to learn and follow the basic lessons
of arguing. More>>>
Be positive with what you want. More>>>
One has to be able to "read" his opponent. More>>>
How can you "read" your opponent's tricks? More>>>
Listening is more important than Talking, and
Thinking is more Intelligent than Reacting. More>>>
Once you win your argument, do not disrespect
your opponent. More>>>
Looking for advices how to
Avoid Arguing?
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Prevention is the best cure of
anything. More>>>
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Take control of yourself.
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Most of arguments are misunderstandings
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Raise your own standards. More>>>
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Point yourself on what's right, and not who
is right. More>>>
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Do not include past into the issue at
hand. More>>>
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Listening is one of the biggest underused
skill. More>>>
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Stop talking. More>>>
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State some strong points of the other
party. More>>>
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Walk away from the argument.
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Raise your level of awareness.More>>>
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