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Argue opinions - not a person.  


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 “Nothing is as frustrating as arguing with someone who knows what he's talking about.” Sam Ewing


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SMILE!  You just entered the site where you can learn almost everything about arguing. Whether you like to argue or not, you'll find useful lessons, tips and advices how to successfully get out of an argument. Myth #1: many people believe that arguing is the same as anger. This can not be any further from the truth.

Here are 4 definitions from the Dictionary: "Argue":

1. express disagreement: to express disagreement with somebody
2. give reasons for something: to give reasons for an opinion in order to support it.
3. persuade somebody: to persuade somebody to do something by giving reasons.

4. provide evidence for something: to be evidence or a sign of something.

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"Anger"  is a very normal natural reaction to situations that may cause disappointment, hurt, frustration, sadness, confusion, shame or other negative emotions. Yet, for many people anger is an extremely uncomfortable and confusing emotion. Uncontrolled anger can make you feel as though you’re at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion.

 Now, you be the judge.


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OUR GOALS:

  • To promote healthy arguing based on the facts, proven theorems and believes, and to building on strong self confidence. A good healthy arguing ultimately leads to relief of Stress, Anger and Frustrations!
  • To help people who DO NOT want to argue to learn how to avoid arguing.


  • A HUGE relief: Whoever enters our rooms frustrated - always leaves happy! Exchanging your opinions with other people can only help you to:

a) resolve your problems
b) prove you're right or
c) abandon possible delusion and 
d) build strong personality.


  • Need to learn how to avoid the arguing?
    Please come here:
    Avoid Argument

    Don't care about arguing? Great. Just come in, read posts, and don't start (it). No one is gonna bother you!
    However, you're welcome to make your posts, give opinions, ideas, or ask questions. So, be involved as much as it gets. You are allowed to change your mind at any time and start arguing.
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    Basic lessons of Arguing

    1. We do not have to agree with our opponent opinions.
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    2. But we have to respect the opinions of other people.
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    3. Do not confuse opinion(s) with person(s)! NEVER!
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    4. If somebody disagree with you, do not take it personally. It is only a matter of opinions not the persons.
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    5. Do NOT argue with your emotions on. More>>>
    6. Argue opinion not the person. More>>>
    7. Do not swear or use of abusing words. More>>>
    8. Be polite and have a facial expression to follow that. More>>>
    9. Avoid using "irony" or "sarcasm" during your arguing. More>>>

    Advanced Lessons

  • We need to learn and follow the basic lessons of arguing. More>>>

  • Be positive with what you want. More>>>

  • One has to be able to "read" his opponent. More>>>

  • How can you "read" your opponent's tricks? More>>>

  • Listening is more important than Talking, and Thinking is more Intelligent than Reacting. More>>>

  • Once you win your argument, do not disrespect your opponent. More>>>


    Looking for advices how to   Avoid Arguing?

    1. Prevention is the best cure of anything. More>>>

    2. Take control of yourself. More>>>

    3. Most of arguments are misunderstandings More>>>

    4. Raise your own standards. More>>>

    5. Point yourself on what's right, and not who is right. More>>>

    6. Do not include past into the issue at hand. More>>>

    7. Listening is one of the biggest underused skill. More>>> 

    8. Stop talking. More>>>

    9. State some strong points of the other party. More>>>

    10. Walk away from the argument. More>>>

    11. Raise your level of awareness.More>>>

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